Dr Lars Madsen – Schema therapy, emotional blueprints, and the psychology of change

Can our earliest emotional patterns be rewritten?

About Dr Lars Madsen

Dr Lars Madsen is a psychologist and Advanced Accredited Schema Therapist based in Australia, with specialist expertise in complex trauma, personality disorders, and forensic psychology. He holds a Doctorate in Psychology and is one of Australia's leading practitioners of schema therapy, a depth-oriented approach that works directly with the emotional wounds and patterns formed early in life. Lars also hosts the podcast Beyond the Crime, which applies psychological frameworks to understanding criminal behaviour and the people behind it

About this episode

Schema therapy is a depth-oriented psychological approach that explores the emotional blueprints formed in early life — the core beliefs and coping patterns that quietly shape how we think, relate and respond as adults. These schemas often operate outside awareness, influencing everything from our choice of partners to how we handle conflict, rejection or failure.

Lars brings both clinical precision and real-world therapeutic experience to this conversation. He and Jess explore how schemas like “I’m not enough” or “People always leave” become embedded, why we unconsciously recreate familiar emotional dynamics, and how schema therapy moves beyond surface-level thought reframing to work directly with memory, imagery and emotion — helping people shift patterns at their root rather than just managing their symptoms.

In this episode

  • What makes schema therapy different from CBT

  • How early experiences can create lifelong emotional filters

  • Why insight alone isn’t enough — and what healing feels like

  • How therapists help clients confront, reimagine, and soften old wounds

  • The role of writing and journaling in emotional processing

  • What healing looks like in real life — and why schemas never fully disappear

Prompt for reflection

“Think of one recurring struggle in your life — maybe a fear of rejection, or always putting others first. What old belief or unmet need might be driving it?”

This question encourages you to trace a familiar struggle back to its origin, beneath the surface behaviour and into the belief or unresolved need sustaining it.  

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Learn more about Dr Lars Madsen

Website | psychclinic.com.au/lars-madsen

Substack | substack.com/@larsbang

LinkedIn | linkedin.com/in/lars-madsen

X (Twitter) | x.com/LarsBangMadsen2

Listen to his podcast | Beyond The Crime: A Psychological Analysis


This episode was hosted by Jess Leondiou, brought to you by Archley's tools for introspection and reflection. www.archleys.com


Chapters

00:00 - Introduction and Technical Setup

02:55 - Exploring Schema Therapy

06:59 - Understanding Cognitive Behavioral Therapy vs. Schema Therapy

16:52 - The Role of Memory in Schema Therapy

22:04 - Writing as a Tool for Processing Trauma

25:03 - Healing and Functional Changes in Patients

28:08 - Understanding Healing in Relationships

30:26 - The Intersection of Trauma and Personality Disorders

32:48 - The Role of Environment in Schema Development

36:06 - The Impact of Therapy on Schema Awareness

38:57 - Creating Safe Spaces for Vulnerable Conversations

44:12 - Improving Communication Skills for Better Support

45:31 -Techniques for Exploring Personal Schemas

46:32 -The Evolution of Therapy and Self-Talk

47:53 - Journaling and Self-Reflection on Schemas


Transcript: Schema therapy, emotional blueprints, and the psychology of change - Dr Lars Madsen

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